Due to a lack of energy from the brutal Winter months, for the initial couple of weeks of Spring, I was uncharacteristically slacking on the upkeep of my looks. I figured that I looked good enough to suffice for my romantic goals. I was acquiring tail and I still looked much better compared to most of my competitors. What could go wrong?
The quantity of ladies I brought back was normal, however, the quality of lady I was taking back was a bit lower than my average. The quantity of initiative I needed to exert was likewise above normal. This drop in efficiency was not exceptionally severe, but noticeably so. Lately, I've redoubled my efforts to look fresh every time I march on the town and the change has actually been equally noticeable. I've been acquiring more eye bangs with more girls and they are much more receptive when I make my move.
The gains I made weren't huge, but I could definitely feel them. I initially wrote it off as just another case of "look good, don't look bad", but a peculiar hypothesis dawned upon me one day as I was ogling girls on the street with some friends.
We were trading notes on the best ways to determine who the sexually generous girls are based on appearance alone. Jingly bracelets and earrings is good sign. T-shirt underneath a camisole implies don't bother. Tanning at the coast in a bikini means she's comfortable being naked. Floppy hat and long sleeves means you're looking at a premature old lady. Odd style plus no war paint means Chinese, which amounts to garlic breath and attitude.
A United States Navy officer was there with us that day. He had only been in Japan for a few months and his only input into the conversation was, "I'm just going to assume they're all sluts."
Then it dawned on me: Japanese gals have a similarly if not much more sophisticated sorting capability for Japanese guys, and a comparatively unsophisticated one for non-Asians. It's simply natural-- they spend their whole lives surrounded by and connecting with largely Japanese men. They recognize exactly how to detect a Japanese guy that cares for himself and one who does not. They will rapidly catch on to the nuances that show high or low sexual worth in a Japanese man.
It bears repeating that the ability to sort Japanese men according to their desirability is not an active process. It occurs on the subconscious level, much like a flinch. Soccer players, after practicing for years on end, no longer have to actively think about the process of dribbling; it just happens as they move.
If you look anything like a Japanese bachelor, you need to look your best to avoid getting caught in Japanese girls' sexual filters. Other foreigners have significantly more slack since the specifics of their looks and behavior will not be as readily identified. But, from personal observation, the magnitude of this effect is will not overcome any major deficiencies in fashion, fitness, or grooming. Obvious foreigners still need to be presentable; the days where any old nerd could fly over to Japan and get laid like tile are mostly over.
Bear in mind is that this sorting process can work to the Asian man's advantage. If he lands on the favorable side of it, he can have a great deal of success with less hassle and with even more girls compared to his western counterpart. If he doesn't, he's in for some harsh times ahead.
In a nutshell, if you're an Asian bachelor looking for a good time in Tokyo, you'd best come correct.
The quantity of ladies I brought back was normal, however, the quality of lady I was taking back was a bit lower than my average. The quantity of initiative I needed to exert was likewise above normal. This drop in efficiency was not exceptionally severe, but noticeably so. Lately, I've redoubled my efforts to look fresh every time I march on the town and the change has actually been equally noticeable. I've been acquiring more eye bangs with more girls and they are much more receptive when I make my move.
The gains I made weren't huge, but I could definitely feel them. I initially wrote it off as just another case of "look good, don't look bad", but a peculiar hypothesis dawned upon me one day as I was ogling girls on the street with some friends.
We were trading notes on the best ways to determine who the sexually generous girls are based on appearance alone. Jingly bracelets and earrings is good sign. T-shirt underneath a camisole implies don't bother. Tanning at the coast in a bikini means she's comfortable being naked. Floppy hat and long sleeves means you're looking at a premature old lady. Odd style plus no war paint means Chinese, which amounts to garlic breath and attitude.
A United States Navy officer was there with us that day. He had only been in Japan for a few months and his only input into the conversation was, "I'm just going to assume they're all sluts."
Then it dawned on me: Japanese gals have a similarly if not much more sophisticated sorting capability for Japanese guys, and a comparatively unsophisticated one for non-Asians. It's simply natural-- they spend their whole lives surrounded by and connecting with largely Japanese men. They recognize exactly how to detect a Japanese guy that cares for himself and one who does not. They will rapidly catch on to the nuances that show high or low sexual worth in a Japanese man.
It bears repeating that the ability to sort Japanese men according to their desirability is not an active process. It occurs on the subconscious level, much like a flinch. Soccer players, after practicing for years on end, no longer have to actively think about the process of dribbling; it just happens as they move.
If you look anything like a Japanese bachelor, you need to look your best to avoid getting caught in Japanese girls' sexual filters. Other foreigners have significantly more slack since the specifics of their looks and behavior will not be as readily identified. But, from personal observation, the magnitude of this effect is will not overcome any major deficiencies in fashion, fitness, or grooming. Obvious foreigners still need to be presentable; the days where any old nerd could fly over to Japan and get laid like tile are mostly over.
Bear in mind is that this sorting process can work to the Asian man's advantage. If he lands on the favorable side of it, he can have a great deal of success with less hassle and with even more girls compared to his western counterpart. If he doesn't, he's in for some harsh times ahead.
In a nutshell, if you're an Asian bachelor looking for a good time in Tokyo, you'd best come correct.
About the Author:
Japanese girls can be a mystery. They certainly were to me, and I'm Japanese-American. Fortunately, I figured out how to lead a life of romantic abundance in the land of the rising sun. Learn everything I wish I'd known about meeting Japanese girls back when I was a college graduate on my blog: redsunblue.com
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