Playing it cool can sometimes be difficult when you find a girl that you really like. These moments at the beginning of a relationship are the best. She's beautiful and funny and you could talk to her forever. You connect on so many levels and she's all you think about. You really want things to work out but you're freaked out that you're going to mess things up. You don't want to say the wrong things but you want to be sure that the relationship moves along. How do you walk that line that borders showing interest without going overboard? How can you let her know that you're really interested in her without blowing it?
First of all, try not to stress yourself out too much. Everything is fine. Allow things to take their natural course and try not to push the relationship along too much. While you might be tempted to want to clarify where this relationship is going, doing so could destroy what might be the perfect relationship for both of you. She knows that you like her. If not, then that is fine too. Providing a little mystery about where your heart stands often causes a woman to be more attracted to you. Even though women will never admit to it, they will chase after a guy that is a bit aloof or mysterious. Inversely, they will often reject a man that appears to be too attracted to them. Avoid the temptation to spill your guts and tell her how wonderful you think she is until you feel that the feeling is mutual.
Secondly, try to be yourself as much as possible. Don't lie or tell her things to try to impress her. Keep the focus on her. This is the getting to know you phase so get to know her. What do you want to know about her? Spend some time thinking about this instead of worrying about when you're supposed to kiss her of if she wants you to kiss her. Everybody loves to talk about themselves so the more interest you show in her the more she is going to like you. And when that moment comes to kiss her, you're going to know.
If at any time you feel that you're not doing well or that you are tempted to do something stupid like wanting to talk about feelings or where you stand in the relationship, take a time out. Excuse yourself and take a few minutes to get your bearings and talk yourself through what's going on. Find some place where you can be alone for five minutes such as the bathroom or in your car and talk yourself through this. Anxiety and nervousness are normal when you're with a girl that you really like but don't let your insecurity destroy what you have built so far. You have successfully attracted her and created a connection with her. Don't allow your emotions to make you do something that you're going to regret. Be strong and know that she is attracted to you and that everything will progress much more quickly if you have confidence in yourself. Women find confidence very attractive.
It can be difficult dating an attractive woman that you really care about. Dating ugly women who are no fun to be around can be equally stressful but in a different way. Be happy that you have finally found someone nice and understand that this is all a part of the dance called romance. Give her the romantic adventure that she will remember for the rest of her life. There will always be time a year or two from now to tell each other what was going through your minds during these first days of dating but you have to remain cool and calm to get to that day. Enjoy dating the woman of your dreams and be glad that you finally found her.
First of all, try not to stress yourself out too much. Everything is fine. Allow things to take their natural course and try not to push the relationship along too much. While you might be tempted to want to clarify where this relationship is going, doing so could destroy what might be the perfect relationship for both of you. She knows that you like her. If not, then that is fine too. Providing a little mystery about where your heart stands often causes a woman to be more attracted to you. Even though women will never admit to it, they will chase after a guy that is a bit aloof or mysterious. Inversely, they will often reject a man that appears to be too attracted to them. Avoid the temptation to spill your guts and tell her how wonderful you think she is until you feel that the feeling is mutual.
Secondly, try to be yourself as much as possible. Don't lie or tell her things to try to impress her. Keep the focus on her. This is the getting to know you phase so get to know her. What do you want to know about her? Spend some time thinking about this instead of worrying about when you're supposed to kiss her of if she wants you to kiss her. Everybody loves to talk about themselves so the more interest you show in her the more she is going to like you. And when that moment comes to kiss her, you're going to know.
If at any time you feel that you're not doing well or that you are tempted to do something stupid like wanting to talk about feelings or where you stand in the relationship, take a time out. Excuse yourself and take a few minutes to get your bearings and talk yourself through what's going on. Find some place where you can be alone for five minutes such as the bathroom or in your car and talk yourself through this. Anxiety and nervousness are normal when you're with a girl that you really like but don't let your insecurity destroy what you have built so far. You have successfully attracted her and created a connection with her. Don't allow your emotions to make you do something that you're going to regret. Be strong and know that she is attracted to you and that everything will progress much more quickly if you have confidence in yourself. Women find confidence very attractive.
It can be difficult dating an attractive woman that you really care about. Dating ugly women who are no fun to be around can be equally stressful but in a different way. Be happy that you have finally found someone nice and understand that this is all a part of the dance called romance. Give her the romantic adventure that she will remember for the rest of her life. There will always be time a year or two from now to tell each other what was going through your minds during these first days of dating but you have to remain cool and calm to get to that day. Enjoy dating the woman of your dreams and be glad that you finally found her.
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