vendredi 7 mars 2014

Naples Psychologist Helps Couples With Marriage Counseling Solutions Together And Individually

By Donna Beley


In a troubled marriage, one partner may want to talk about what is wrong. The other partner may not want to admit anything is wrong. When both are willing to work with a Naples psychologist, there is a possibility of finding a solution to their problems.

Unless it is confronted, one of two things will happen. It will either remain unresolved or get worse. Usually it is beneficial for both partners to attend the sessions for counseling.

However, if one partner refuses, the other may still gain valuable insight. When both are in agreement about attending, it is more likely to be successful. Later on each may attend a session alone.

The psychologist may begin by asking questions to help determine the main point of contention between husband and wife. Body language as well as words will divulge the extent of the problem. The psychologist will have an idea of how long counseling may take after one or two introductory sessions.

There may be a sensitive situation that is difficult to discuss. There may be an intimacy issue. Sex should be an integral part of a marriage, but, that is not always easy to manage.

Some factors lead to, instigate and maintain a sexless marriage. A lack of emotional intimacy is definitely not conducive to a healthy physical intimacy. Often a health problem can be part of the problem.

A counselor can make it easier to uncover a hidden reason for lack of sexual contact. Through counseling, that reason can be confronted. The sexual incapacity can be resolved when it is understood.

Another possibility is one spouse having a history of childhood sexual abuse. This can result in a dislike of sexual contact in adulthood. The other spouse may not be aware that such trauma occurred.

An accidental injury or physical health problem is another possible cause. If one partner takes medication, that may lead to a lack of libido. But, the major barrier to sexual intimacy is the inability to communicate with each other.




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