dimanche 30 mars 2014

How To Recapture That Spark In Your Marriage

By Ella Hemmings


It's easy to get so caught up in your day-to-day grind that you lose sight of one of the most important things in your life, your relationship with your spouse. It might seem hard to reconnect, but it just takes a little effort and imagination. Here are a few suggestions to help rekindle the spark.

Too often the problem is that you don't spend any time together, just the two of you, doing something fun. Make a promise to go out one night each week even if it's just for an hour or two. Go out for coffee, take a long walk, visit a local museum, pack a picnic lunch and head to the park or just enjoy a dinner for two and a movie.

Keep in mind that date night can also be a date during the day. If you live near a large lake, river or the ocean, you could book an exciting kayak adventure or a fun boat cruise. Take a hike, literally, and head out to your local wilderness and explore the hiking trails. If you have a shared interest such as golf or biking or searching for treasures at flea markets and antique shops, go do that.

Sometimes you have to be the one to make that first move, so just start out with something simple, like packing them a special lunch with their favorite treats or maybe bringing home a bouquet of flowers. Send a cute text now and then or write a note in your lipstick on the bathroom mirror. Transform yourself back into that fun girlfriend or boyfriend you were back in the day when you were dating. Obviously, life has changed, but you can still have fun.

Sometimes it's a great idea to plan a vacation just for the two of you. Ask friends or family to watch the kids for a long weekend or even a week and get away. Select someplace where relaxation is the main focus of your trip, such as cabin in the wilderness or perhaps a cruise or a romantic trip to somewhere in paradise such as Maui. An island vacation in Maui is a particularly romantic option, filled with soft ocean breezes, warm tropical waters and spectacular sunsets. Often, a change of scene alone will help two people reconnect.

If you do plan a Maui getaway, surprise your partner with a truly romantic gesture, such as a vow renewal ceremony right on the beach. Contact Love Maui Weddings and let these experienced Maui wedding planners handle all the details. They offer a special vow renewal package for just $299, entitled "Love, Always." This sublime package includes a ceremony right on the beach, the minister's services, a copy of your vows, a keepsake bottle of sand and even freshly made leis for the happy couple. You are sure to return home refreshed, renewed and inspired to keep your relationship happy and full of romance.




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