Do you wish that your ex was still in love with you? Does your heart tell you that there must be something there but you feel that your ex isn't sending any signals that they still love you? How can you be sure that it's really over and how can you know if your ex still has feelings for you?
You may have thought about being honest and simply confronting your ex with your suspicions that they are still in love with you. Honesty is always the best policy, right? You do know that your ex isn't going to confess such emotions and there's a very good chance that your ex is also confused over how they feel about you. On one hand, you know that love never really dies but on the other hand, your ex doesn't act like they really care about you at all.
A good sign that your ex is still in love with you is if they appear to be angry or overly emotional when you see them or talk with them. If you notice that your ex feels as if they have to tell you what is wrong with you or if they speak their mind concerning decisions that you're making then there's a good chance that love still dwells in their heart for you.
You may have heard that hate is not the opposite of love. Feelings of apathy or not caring at all are the opposite of love. If your ex is still in love with you then they will be affected by you and the only way to hide these emotions is to repress them and cover them over with what looks like hate. If your ex didn't care about you, there would be no emotions at all and they wouldn't say a word about you, your life or your decisions in life.
Secondly, if your ex has denied the fact that they're still in love with you such as by telling you that they no longer love you then you can be reasonably sure that the opposite is true. This is classic denial and words often mean the opposite when someone is in turmoil over their feelings. If your ex has said that they hate you then they truly love you. If you ex has even said that they don't care then they do care.
You can tell if your ex is overcompensating and that they do still love you in spite of their words by observing their body language. It's simple for your ex to say that they feel nothing for you or that they don't love you anymore but their body language will tell their true feelings every time. Standing with their arms folded, hiding their hands by putting them in their pockets and avoiding eye contact are all signs that your ex is hiding their true feelings.
If you notice that your ex avoids you or that he or she is short with you when you communicate then that could be a good sign that your ex is still in love with you. This might also be a sign that your ex feels uncomfortable around you but all of this depends upon how you have been acting since your breakup.
Trying too hard to convince your ex to reunite can strain a relationship and make your ex not want to talk to you. This behavior will make your ex feel that you're weak or needy. After all, only a needy person chases after someone that has rejected them. If you have a difficult time with your own emotions then perhaps it's time for you to avoid your ex for a short while. Chasing after your ex is not going to make them want to get back together with you and such behavior is simply unattractive.
This breakup is an emotional powder keg for both of you. You wish to get back together. Your ex has made a decision to end the relationship yet you know that deep down inside they still have feelings for you. These emotions conflict with their decision and now they are confused over what to do. How should they act? How should they feel? While your ex might say one thing you can be reasonably sure that their true feelings are a little more complex and buried somewhere under the chaos that your breakup has created.
You may have thought about being honest and simply confronting your ex with your suspicions that they are still in love with you. Honesty is always the best policy, right? You do know that your ex isn't going to confess such emotions and there's a very good chance that your ex is also confused over how they feel about you. On one hand, you know that love never really dies but on the other hand, your ex doesn't act like they really care about you at all.
A good sign that your ex is still in love with you is if they appear to be angry or overly emotional when you see them or talk with them. If you notice that your ex feels as if they have to tell you what is wrong with you or if they speak their mind concerning decisions that you're making then there's a good chance that love still dwells in their heart for you.
You may have heard that hate is not the opposite of love. Feelings of apathy or not caring at all are the opposite of love. If your ex is still in love with you then they will be affected by you and the only way to hide these emotions is to repress them and cover them over with what looks like hate. If your ex didn't care about you, there would be no emotions at all and they wouldn't say a word about you, your life or your decisions in life.
Secondly, if your ex has denied the fact that they're still in love with you such as by telling you that they no longer love you then you can be reasonably sure that the opposite is true. This is classic denial and words often mean the opposite when someone is in turmoil over their feelings. If your ex has said that they hate you then they truly love you. If you ex has even said that they don't care then they do care.
You can tell if your ex is overcompensating and that they do still love you in spite of their words by observing their body language. It's simple for your ex to say that they feel nothing for you or that they don't love you anymore but their body language will tell their true feelings every time. Standing with their arms folded, hiding their hands by putting them in their pockets and avoiding eye contact are all signs that your ex is hiding their true feelings.
If you notice that your ex avoids you or that he or she is short with you when you communicate then that could be a good sign that your ex is still in love with you. This might also be a sign that your ex feels uncomfortable around you but all of this depends upon how you have been acting since your breakup.
Trying too hard to convince your ex to reunite can strain a relationship and make your ex not want to talk to you. This behavior will make your ex feel that you're weak or needy. After all, only a needy person chases after someone that has rejected them. If you have a difficult time with your own emotions then perhaps it's time for you to avoid your ex for a short while. Chasing after your ex is not going to make them want to get back together with you and such behavior is simply unattractive.
This breakup is an emotional powder keg for both of you. You wish to get back together. Your ex has made a decision to end the relationship yet you know that deep down inside they still have feelings for you. These emotions conflict with their decision and now they are confused over what to do. How should they act? How should they feel? While your ex might say one thing you can be reasonably sure that their true feelings are a little more complex and buried somewhere under the chaos that your breakup has created.
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