If you make these 3 commitments to someone in your life, really make sure it's somebody actually special and who you can throw your heart into in a relationship. Why? Because these 3 commitments are serious.
I am going to never know you.
Make a promise to never know the special person you love. What does that really mean? I mean, each day commit to learning about them constantly as if they were someone completely new. Date them. Court them. Be excited about them. The very worst thing you can do in a functioning relationship is fall into complacency and permit things to get dull. No, you must absolutely fall head over heels in love again with the person you adore. That keeps the fire going.
I am going to never need you.
Make a promise to never need them to be anything apart from what they are. Actually true love is loving somebody for just who they are in reality and just who they aren't. When we begin looking at the individual across from us and demanding that they change very fundamental things about themselves, you know you are heading straight for disaster when a person starts attempting to manipulate who you are way down on the inside. So don't even be that person. Instead, celebrate your likenesses and celebrate your differences. That's how you know you really have something really special on your hands.
I promise to rock your socks off every single day
Sounds a bit mad, and it's, but love is lots of fun. Love is flowery combat. Love is exuberant and kind. If you aim to actually bring something new and fun to the table every single time you see someone, you can keep the levels of attraction really high and always be having an excellent time. Sure, there will absolutely be be times where you get mixed up in fights, but keep the perspective of needing to rock someones socks off every day and you will always growing with someone in a functioning relationship.
So make these 3 commitments to someone incredibly special.
Who knows? Lightning could strike.
I am going to never know you.
Make a promise to never know the special person you love. What does that really mean? I mean, each day commit to learning about them constantly as if they were someone completely new. Date them. Court them. Be excited about them. The very worst thing you can do in a functioning relationship is fall into complacency and permit things to get dull. No, you must absolutely fall head over heels in love again with the person you adore. That keeps the fire going.
I am going to never need you.
Make a promise to never need them to be anything apart from what they are. Actually true love is loving somebody for just who they are in reality and just who they aren't. When we begin looking at the individual across from us and demanding that they change very fundamental things about themselves, you know you are heading straight for disaster when a person starts attempting to manipulate who you are way down on the inside. So don't even be that person. Instead, celebrate your likenesses and celebrate your differences. That's how you know you really have something really special on your hands.
I promise to rock your socks off every single day
Sounds a bit mad, and it's, but love is lots of fun. Love is flowery combat. Love is exuberant and kind. If you aim to actually bring something new and fun to the table every single time you see someone, you can keep the levels of attraction really high and always be having an excellent time. Sure, there will absolutely be be times where you get mixed up in fights, but keep the perspective of needing to rock someones socks off every day and you will always growing with someone in a functioning relationship.
So make these 3 commitments to someone incredibly special.
Who knows? Lightning could strike.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author of The Words Of Encouragement, a website dedicated to bringing the best quotes, motivational content on the web, and blogs all to one place. Feeling ready to make these 3 special commitments to someone? Going through a long distance relationship? Dig into these long distance quotes for some perspective on how to keep your love strong.
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