Stop looking for your other half.
Huh?!
This is probably the complete opposite of what you have been taught throughout your entire life, but take a second to hear me out. When you are desperately searching for your other half, you are implying that you aren't a complete and whole person in the first place. If our true happiness lives in seeing our lives and dreams fulfilled, then why are we setting ourselves up for failure by suggesting that we are always going to be incomplete until someone else arrives into our life?
As an alternative, look for the person who will be your teammate.
Look for someone who challenges you to be something greater than you've ever been before. Look for someone that believes in you and your vision, who is there for you when times get tough and who comes to you when they want support as well. Look for someone who will walk right by your side, not your missing piece.
So stop your search.
If there's any guarantee in life, it's that things vanish as quick as they arrive. Even the amazing relationships that stand the test of time finally end and you need to go on living your life. The person who is going to be there for you for some considerable time would also wish that you would not be damaged to pieces when they are gone. Of course it's going to hurt, but they would want you to continue living in the way that you were when they were around. So be a whole person who can love another completely. Be the best version you may be for yourself and let another to dream with you on how to change the world.
When we spend our lives chasing our dreams, working on ourselves, and loving other people fearlessly without any worry or doubt we can live our best life. However, when we see ourselves as incomplete and deficient in some way we undermine our own belief system and struggle to show up in this world as confident men and women.
So find the person who will be your teammate and who will love and support you no matter what.
Huh?!
This is probably the complete opposite of what you have been taught throughout your entire life, but take a second to hear me out. When you are desperately searching for your other half, you are implying that you aren't a complete and whole person in the first place. If our true happiness lives in seeing our lives and dreams fulfilled, then why are we setting ourselves up for failure by suggesting that we are always going to be incomplete until someone else arrives into our life?
As an alternative, look for the person who will be your teammate.
Look for someone who challenges you to be something greater than you've ever been before. Look for someone that believes in you and your vision, who is there for you when times get tough and who comes to you when they want support as well. Look for someone who will walk right by your side, not your missing piece.
So stop your search.
If there's any guarantee in life, it's that things vanish as quick as they arrive. Even the amazing relationships that stand the test of time finally end and you need to go on living your life. The person who is going to be there for you for some considerable time would also wish that you would not be damaged to pieces when they are gone. Of course it's going to hurt, but they would want you to continue living in the way that you were when they were around. So be a whole person who can love another completely. Be the best version you may be for yourself and let another to dream with you on how to change the world.
When we spend our lives chasing our dreams, working on ourselves, and loving other people fearlessly without any worry or doubt we can live our best life. However, when we see ourselves as incomplete and deficient in some way we undermine our own belief system and struggle to show up in this world as confident men and women.
So find the person who will be your teammate and who will love and support you no matter what.
About the Author:
Live your dream. Evan Sanders is a professional life coach at AYKME Life Coaching and writes articles about this daily journey of life. Dive into these Life Changing Quotes to inspire you to live your best life. Also, if you have a chance, check out these Strong Women Quotes to find that perfect teammate.
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