We have all been there.
We've been in a situation where our love is being abused, we feel horrible about ourselves and we know we should walk away from the person who is taking complete advantage of us but are finding it very hard to.
For everyone who has been there, they are faced with some of the hardest realities of all - the absolute need to walk away and respect oneself.
There's this really interesting art in leaving people who don't treat you well, respect you enough to reply to you, or don't act like you mean much to them.
The art is being able to speak your truth and come from the heart while creating personal boundaries letting another person know that "what has been going on is not okay."
This can be very difficult to do however.
What's the indicator you need to take care of yourself and walk away from something?
Your heart. If you feel deeply in your heart that you have given everything that you have to offer, given the person across from you chance after chance and they still aren't willing to give back to you, walk away. Walk away as fast as you can because that person is going to continue to take advantage of you for as long as you are around.
When you know your worth, you start acting like you are worth it.
This doesn't at all mean that doing this isn't a painful process. It can be incredibly painful.
If you refuse to remove toxic people from your life you will end up being dragged down by their negative attitudes and it will tear apart your life in the long run.
So have the courage to walk away.
The only thing to keep in mind here is that people often come back after you have walked away from them because they start to see just how much you are worth. The second art form is understanding when to give second chances and when to continue moving on with your life.
However, always know what you are worth and be willing to stand your ground.
If you want your life to start taking off, you must first invest into yourself and understand what makes you truly special. Without understanding your own magic how could you ever really understand the magic of others?
And living a life full of love and excellence is the way to go.
We've been in a situation where our love is being abused, we feel horrible about ourselves and we know we should walk away from the person who is taking complete advantage of us but are finding it very hard to.
For everyone who has been there, they are faced with some of the hardest realities of all - the absolute need to walk away and respect oneself.
There's this really interesting art in leaving people who don't treat you well, respect you enough to reply to you, or don't act like you mean much to them.
The art is being able to speak your truth and come from the heart while creating personal boundaries letting another person know that "what has been going on is not okay."
This can be very difficult to do however.
What's the indicator you need to take care of yourself and walk away from something?
Your heart. If you feel deeply in your heart that you have given everything that you have to offer, given the person across from you chance after chance and they still aren't willing to give back to you, walk away. Walk away as fast as you can because that person is going to continue to take advantage of you for as long as you are around.
When you know your worth, you start acting like you are worth it.
This doesn't at all mean that doing this isn't a painful process. It can be incredibly painful.
If you refuse to remove toxic people from your life you will end up being dragged down by their negative attitudes and it will tear apart your life in the long run.
So have the courage to walk away.
The only thing to keep in mind here is that people often come back after you have walked away from them because they start to see just how much you are worth. The second art form is understanding when to give second chances and when to continue moving on with your life.
However, always know what you are worth and be willing to stand your ground.
If you want your life to start taking off, you must first invest into yourself and understand what makes you truly special. Without understanding your own magic how could you ever really understand the magic of others?
And living a life full of love and excellence is the way to go.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is a fearless adventurer, professional life coach and writer. He is on a mission to incite the hearts and minds of those around him and help them live their best lives. Read more of his work at The Better Man Projects and throw yourself into these Life Is Too Short Quotes for some more inspiration and motivation.
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