dimanche 1 février 2015

The Tips On How To Win Child Custody For Fathers

By Ines Flores


There is a general perception that child will always be left to the mother in case of a divorce. This is however not true, in fact, the father has equal legal rights, just as the mother when it comes to the child's custody. However, this can be so difficult, particularly in case the mother is also filing for the same, whether it is full or just a joint custody. For those who are wondering how to win child custody for fathers, here are some tips.

First, it is important that the dad provides a history of providing for the kid's support. As such, if you have been paying for the upkeep, you must continue doing so, but if you were not paying, then it is never too late. This can be done formally or informally through arrangements with the kid, s mother. In all cases, it is important to keep the documentation proof such as the correspondence letters with the mother and the receipts.

The second part is to win the child's own affection. Establishing a relationship with the kid ensures that he/she approves you and prefers you for custody. There are many ways to achieve this, but the most obvious one includes maintaining a regular communication. The dad should be present in the important days for the kid such as the baptism, birthdays, sport days, and other eventful days. In addition to this, the dad should be able to take the kid out once in a while and even play with him/her.

In order to succeed in this, there is a need to have well planned visitation schedule. The regular and planned program ensures that the dad does not miss out on the important days. This includes introducing yourself to the school administration, and being in communication with the teacher.

When preparing for the case hearing, there are several factors that need to be taken into account. The official dress, most preferably, a dark suit and black shoes work best. The most important part comes to the etiquette in the courtroom. The father must not be annoyed or angry in the process of hearing. The signs of outbursts and restlessness can work against him.

When preparing for the hearing, there are a number of things that must be considered. The first of these is the courtroom etiquette. This includes refraining from any sign of anger or outbursts of any sought. It is also advisable that the father dresses officially to the courtroom. This consists of a dark suit and official shoes.

The best interest of the child is what is used to make the final determination. As such, father must be able to explain the best interest, and more importantly, explain why leaving the kid with his/her mother is not in his/her best interest.

There are better ways of fighting for the custody as an alternative to a full hearing. The two other options are arbitration and mediation that are less costly. However, whether this is a full hearing, mediation, or arbitration, it is very necessary that you seek the services of a well experienced lawyer to help you out as this can make a big difference.




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