jeudi 12 février 2015

Choosing A Childfree Dating Site

By Beryl Dalton


Before a man and a woman decide to end up married they first form a relationship in which they get to know each other. It is at this stage that they get to know the things they have in common, their likes and dislikes and if they are compatible. If the two find out that they are not suitable for each other they part ways to find other suitable persons for them. Some people however go online to look for relationships where they meet people who have certain preferences and are categorized according to their preferences like childfree dating site.

Child free dating sites are known to be online sites where a man and a woman who are not considering having kids get into a serious relationship. They might have kids or never want to have kids at all as a result of different reasons.

The advantages of a childless or child free relationship are; there are no restrictions- a kid can restrict one in doing some things like going out or attending some functions so the person who takes care of the child has limited freedom. Having a kid can also be expensive in that extra expenses are incurred when a child is around which may be difficult for some people.

There are no worries and stress concerning a child, that is, if the child has eaten or not, if he/she is well or not etc. A person who has a kid might find it difficult to date as there would be divided attention between the person being dated and the child which would not be fair on one person. And there are minimal interruptions when one does not have a kid.

Some of the disadvantages however are; loneliness- children provide companionship to their parents and if a couple decide that they never want children they might end up feeling lonely especially when they start aging. They will also miss the wonderful experience of being parents and as years go by they would not get that opportunity again.

People see the ones who have decided not to have children as workaholics or book wormers, their lives are seen as nothing if there is no work or school and are also seen to have less responsibility. The society also view these people as selfish since they do not want kids and many people do not like to be associated with them, they are judged harshly and seen as people who do not like kids.

A child free dating site is most preferred than any other because it is said to have minimal stress than the normal sites where people date and afterwards end up getting children. It is a better site because people know what they are getting to and what to except in the future and if things do not work out there would be no kids to suffer the consequences.

People are being advised to be careful when dating online because some people are just cons. While some people have been lucky to find sincere people whom they have successfully dated and married others have not been so lucky, so anything can be expected when dating online.




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