jeudi 24 janvier 2019

The Need To Accept Interfaith Marriage

By Sarah Morris


Marriage is when two people make their vows for a lifetime that they are going to spend together. However not all marriages are accepted by some society. Marriages such as two couples with the same gender, has huge gap when it comes to age or jewish and interfaith wedding Orange County, which is considered as a taboo to some religious community.

Marriage between two people with different religion can be difficult, there are so many factors that they need to consider and boundaries they have to overcome. Factors such as differences, especially when it comes to their beliefs, other than that they also have to take in mind the probable reaction of their loved ones, and there are so much more that they have to face and surpass.

It is true, that with different religion there will always be differences in beliefs and values. However if the ones in the relationship are willing to set that aside then no one has the right to judge them by the norms in their different religious circle.

Though there are ways to make things easier, such as changing their religion. But it is like asking for the other to sacrifice years and years of religious values and beliefs. However in most cases as such, they make that kind of decision on their own, even if they know the weight of that decision.

That is why the world needs to accept these individuals fully. What is the difference if you love someone from the same religion or not. What if a jewish man, met a christian woman, she is compassionate, kind, and she has everything he has been looking for in a woman. Would it be right for him to not take the opportunity to marry the person that he has been looking for.

When it comes to interfaith marriages, usually the couples make their own choices, often time one converts to the others religion but there are also cases that they enter a life of love and commitment without having to force their religious belief on each other. But with this there is a great amount of understanding and respect for things to work out between the couple.

What is the consequences of forcing someone to love a person he or she is not even slightly attracted to. Eventually the couples would just drift from each other and all the vows and promises they made will be mere words that has no weight. And they would eventually just break up.

In this multicultural society with multi religious people the boundaries and reasons that once kept different people of different views apart is slowly disappearing. More and more the realization that all are the same, and are all made by flesh, blood and bones. All can coexist without having to establish and lines or walls in between.

And those who go through all the odds in an interfaith marriage it is not that they do not know that it is difficult, they do in fact they acknowledge it. But love is something you cannot control or simply forget, once it strikes it hits you at your core that you become helpless.




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