jeudi 10 avril 2014

Learning The Art Of Flirting

By Brett Vaughan


Flirting is a crucial skill that some people acquire it naturally while others have to practice the art so as to master the skill. In the art of flirting, people have to go past their fear of approaching stranger and overcome the perception that strangers are dangerous. In fact, the anonymity of strangers should be seen as advantage since one has no information about the other.

For people who are not comfortable with the idea of approaching people confidently, one has to practice this art by trying as much as possible to approach random people and try to make a conversation. This way, one prepares themselves for meeting the right person because there is no damage done when one makes the fool out of themselves since one may probably never meet this person again.

Basically, the more one practices this art the more they get comfortable in doing it as one learns what is good for them and how to take a blow of their ego especially when rejected. Once one has perfected doing it with strangers it is usually time to move to semi-stranger and so on as one gets better at it. With time, one gathers the confident to approach the person that has been making your pulse speed up.

At times, some people may seem intimidating which makes is hard to approach them but the key is usually being confident as the person may probably be waiting for you to approach them. When one is past exchanging phone numbers and saliva, this is usually less intimidating and rejection even becomes less embarrassing as one has gained enough confidence to know that there are other people who would not mind going out with them.

Flirting starts with the eyes, and then the mouth and a little bit of shyness and coyness especially for women. This is different for men and women as women are allowed to act shy while men on the other hand are expected to be confident. Over time, this art has evolved as men are not the only ones who do the approaching as women are now approaching men and even asking for their numbers.

There usually is no right place for this as it can be done anywhere, all one needs to know is be able to take hints and read signals. For instance, a blink, a smile, or shyness may be a signal hinting to you that someone want you to approach them. However, being over flirtatious may be off-putting as one may seem easy and creepy especially if it is a lady does it.

This art takes a cycle whereby one starts by hinting their target with eye gestures, then a smile accompanied with body language which should be an indication that it is the right time to go t the target. In addition to this, being able to ignite a conversation is critical as having a conversation that is flowing makes the time enjoyable giving room to make an advance to break the touch barrier.

There are certain rules of the game that one should consider for a successful flirting moment and still make it interesting. As hard as it might be, leaving when the conversation gets juicy is the best move to make if you are anticipating for a second date. This is because you will leave them at a good note and at a suspense whereby they would like to meet again and continue from where you left.




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